Toys for him: masturbators, cock rings, sleeves and more. How to choose

The male body has a far wider range of sensations than most people think, and it deserves the same curiosity we bring to any other kind of wellbeing. Toys for him are made for exactly this: discovering new nuances, taking time for yourself and bringing more complicity into a relationship.

The World Health Organization describes sexual health as a state of physical, emotional and social wellbeing, not merely the absence of problems. In this guide you will find the 4 main types, the safest materials and a simple path to choosing.

The 4 types of toys for him at a glance

Before getting into the details, ask yourself what you are looking for: some time of your own, play for two or something new. Each category answers a different desire:

• Masturbators: for solo pleasure, from compact models to electronic ones.
• Cock rings: more intensity and control, alone or as a couple.
• Penis sleeves: texture and girth designed mainly for couples.
• Prostate massagers: to explore the P-spot slowly.

Masturbators: toys for him to explore on your own

This is the richest and most versatile category: disposable travel models, reusable ones with elaborate inner channels, and electronic ones with vibration or suction. Discover the full range of masturbators for him.

A good example of refined design is the Tenga Spinner DX 01 Drops, with a rotating structure and a soft elastomer that adapts to every size. What to check:

• Inner texture: for a first time, choose a soft, versatile one.
• Stretchy opening: keeps it comfortable for different sizes.
• Cleaning: models that open or have a through-channel are easier to wash.
• Discretion: shape and noise matter if you share your home or travel.

Cock rings: more intensity and complicity

Cock rings gently slow the outflow of blood: an erection can feel fuller and last longer, and sensations become more intense. You will find every model in the cock rings section.

To start, a set with several diameters such as the Set of 3 silicone penis rings (3, 4 and 5 cm) helps you find the right fit. For couples there is the Satisfyer Dualist vibrating ring, rechargeable and IPX7 waterproof. What to check:

• Material: soft, stretchy silicone slips off easily and is the safest.
• Fit: snug but never tight.
• Rigid or metal rings: for experienced users only, because they do not stretch.

Golden rule: do not wear a ring for more than 20-30 minutes at a time. Remove it immediately if you feel pain, numbness or coldness or notice a change in skin colour, and never fall asleep wearing it. If you have circulation problems or take blood thinners, talk to your doctor first. A painful erection that lasts for hours is an emergency: see the NHS page on priapism.

Penis sleeves: new sensations for two

Sleeves are worn over the penis and are the toys for him designed for couple play: they add texture, girth or length. Explore the options among our penis sleeves.

There are also hollow models for those who want help with firmness, such as the Osborn hollow sleeve. What to check:

• Goal: texture for your partner, extra girth or support.
• Fit: a ring at the base keeps it stable; it should hug without squeezing.
• Material: silicone lasts longer; “realistic” materials are softer but porous.

A tip: choose together. Talking about desires before buying is already part of the fun.

Prostate massagers: the P-spot

The prostate is a very sensitive area which, gently stimulated, offers deep sensations unlike the usual ones. In the P-spot section you will find models for beginners and experts.

A progressive set such as the Set of 3 P-Spot Trainer massagers lets you go step by step. What to check:

• Flared or anchor base: an essential safety feature for any anal use.
• Slim, curved shape: ideal for beginners.
• Plenty of lube and no rush: relaxation is everything.

Materials, lubricant and safety

The material determines the feel, lifespan and hygiene of all toys for him. Choose products that state it clearly and be wary of vague labels.

• Body-safe silicone: non-porous, hypoallergenic and easy to sanitise.
• TPE and elastomers: very realistic but porous; wash after every use and let air-dry.
• Metal and glass: non-porous but rigid, for experienced users.
• Electronic toys: check waterproofing (e.g. IPX7) and charging type.

The right lubricant for your toys for him

Lubricant improves glide, protects the skin and preserves the material. Water-based lube is compatible with everything: a safe choice is Tenga Lotion Regular.

• Water-based: compatible with every material and easy to wash off.
• Silicone-based: long-lasting, but avoid it with silicone toys.
• Oil-based: avoid it with latex and soft materials.

Learn more in our guide to buying intimate lubricants and our guide on how to clean sex toys.

How to choose your first toys for him

1. Start from your desire. Personal relaxation: a masturbator. Couple play: a vibrating ring or sleeve. Something new: a prostate massager.
2. Pick a versatile model. A manual masturbator or a set of silicone rings shows you what you enjoy.
3. Pair it with a compatible lubricant. Water-based is the safest bet.
4. Look after hygiene. Wash and dry your toy after every use.
5. Take your time. Pleasure is not a performance, it is an exploration.

You will find all the toys for him in our selection in the For him section, with discreet shipping.

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